She is annoyed at you in bed. You feel you are making all the right moves. She says you are too tame in the sack. You feel you are not staifying her needs.
The deal
A man's ego is hardwired to his penis. "If he can feel a strong erection, then he's powerful. That's why impotence is dreaded so much". Some men give up trying to the dismay of their partner and turn sullen about it.This feeling of inadequacy then goes on to affect his work.
"That lack of confidence in bed transfers over into all other aspects of life because the emasculation he feels, questions his maculinity,"Change your perceptions. You must be doing something right if she is still with you. Sit yourself down for an hour and ask yourself difficult questions like :
Where are all these fear and insecurities coming from?
Write down your thoughts, or if you feel comfortable enough, talk to someone or a therapist or read for advice
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