SHE IS ANNOYED AT YOU IN BED?

She is annoyed at you in bed. You feel you are making all the right moves. She says you are too tame in the sack. You feel you are not staifying her needs.

The deal

A man's ego is hardwired to his penis. "If he can feel a strong erection, then he's powerful. That's why impotence is dreaded so much". Some men give up trying to the dismay of their partner and turn sullen about it.This feeling of inadequacy then goes on to affect his work.

"That lack of confidence in bed transfers over into all other aspects of life because the emasculation he feels, questions his maculinity,"

Change your perceptions. You must be doing something right if she is still with you. Sit yourself down for an hour and ask yourself difficult questions like :

Where are all these fear and insecurities coming from?

Write down your thoughts, or if you feel comfortable enough, talk to someone or a therapist or read for advice

10 THINGS THAT YOU DONT KNOW ABOUT MEN's PENIS

• Smoking can shorten your penis by as much as a centimeter. When we say about good erection it is all about good bloodflow, and lighting up calcifies blood vessels, stifling erectile circulation. So even you don't care all that much about your lungs or dying young, spare the little guy.

• You know what...size does matter. The longer your penis, the better "semen displacement" you 'll achieve when having sex with a woman flush with competing sperm.
  

• Better-looking men may have stronger sperm. Somewhere that I read, Spanish researchers showed women photos of guys who had good, average and lousy sperm - and told them to pick the handsomest men. The women chose the best sperm producers most often

• There are two types of penises. One kind expands and lengthens when becoming erect (this is the GROWER). The other appears big most of the time, but doesn't get much bigger after achieving erection (this is the SHOWER). So are you a GROWER or a SHOWER?

• The most common cause of penile rupture : Vigorous masturbation. Some risks are just worth taking

• Only one man in 400 is flexible enough to give himself oral pleasure. It's estimated, however, that all 400 400 have given it their best shot at some point

• The average male orgasm lasts 6 seconds. Women get 23 seconds. Which means if women were really interested in equality, they'd make sure men have four orgasms for every one of womens

• An enlarged prostate gland can cause both erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation. If you have an unexplained case of either, your doctor's looking forward to checking your prostate. Even if you're not.

• No brain is necessary for ejaculation. That order comes from the spinal cord. Finding a living vessel for said ejaculation, however takes hours of careful thought and often considerable amount of alcohol

• German researchers say the average intercourse lasts 2 minutes, 50 seconds, yet women perceive it as lasting 5 minutes, 30 seconds. Are men that good or that bad?
  

LICK ME...SUCK ME..IT IS ALL ABOUT ORAL SEX

ORAL SEX IS SURE A FUN AND EXCITING EXPERIENCE

Some of you might complain that your wife do not perform any oral sex or some of us tend to think that women know how to give a great oral sex. We think that they must take down notes while watching the porn movies! Honey you are wrong...this is not always the case.

I have a few pointers to share on how to improve your partner's skill when it comes to oral sex.
One trick is using ice...which can give a great sensation. You might think that your penis would go limb, but it does the opposite if this. I am sure that you will enjoy the experience.

Sometimes, women do not use their hands enough and think that oral sex is all about taking it in the mouth. What you can do is to tell her to rub and squeeze your testicles while she goes down on you. Your testicles do not get touched very often so when they are - WOW! The feeling is amazing!!!

Teach her to grip your penis like a baseball bat and stroke along in rhythm as she goes down on you. This will drive you crazy! Nothing feels better than a little tongue magic. Tell her to be creative with her tongue. Tell her to flick it against the head and to lick your penis like a popsicle.

Also, tell her to suck and lick your testicles. Are you a brave man? Tell her to lick your anus while she masturbates you. You will love this. We think that only positions refer to sex. Don't let yourself get into this one track mind. Her working your love bone can feel terrific in many positions. Have you suck your member while you are sitting. This makes for an interesting experience.Your boner will be straight up and paying attention to her.

Have her sit in a chair while you stand next to her. This is a great position. I love the my man holding on the back of my head as I suck him off. Sometimes my man get carried away and he hold onto my ears.

Laying down. This is by far the best method of receiving oral sex. This could be your favorite too. This is a no brainer really. If you are laying down then you are going to be relaxed as she goes down on you. There is nothing more relaxing than a hot babe with her face in your crotch.

I know that most men are very uneasy about their anus. I think this is because men think that if they are aroused by stimulation to the anus that they are gay. Get that out of your head! How could you be gay if a WOMAN is stimulating your anus?? There are many ways that she can stimulate your anus and more importantly your prostate gland while performing oral sex. She can use her finger of course, she can also use a sex toy. I don't suggest that you allow her to stick foreign objects in your ass. Don't try to stick the dog up there, only small things that will feel good.

Tell her to look into your eyes as she sucks you into the cosmos. This can get a great turn on. Watch her look up at you as she swallows your penis like a hungry snake. Here are some things your woman should NOT do.

• Don't use toothpaste. It may taste good on the toothbrush, but keep it far away from your penis. Not only can this burn, but it will feel gritty on your penis. Unless you like the feeling of sand on your penis, toothpaste isn't for you.
  
• Don't allow your woman to use Ben Gay or any type of rub like this. It will burn like hell and you will think you are about to die. Keep this stuff as far away from your dick as you can. Using flavored massage oil can be just like using Ben Gay. It can burn like hell and bother you to no end. I would suggest you stay away from this.
  
• I have never understood it, but some women think that biting a penis feels good. Never suggest that she bites your penis. If she is hungry, she might bite it off! Seriously, its not worth the risk haha or you will end up in the ER.

There is nothing wrong with telling your woman that her oral sex isn't up to par. If she is the sensitive type, make sure you tell her nicely. I would suggest that you be experimental with each other and have great communication in bed. This will help you get those better blow jobs and you will be one happy man.

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